If the girl is more forthcoming in the relation?

What if the girl (wife/fiance/girlfriend) is more forth coming in the relation?

Usually she initiates the romance, lovey dovey-ness, more expressive, rememebrs to call you, is always there when you need her, is more caring, more gift sending sort, more loving, more readily available, more inclined to make it work etc.

  1. Does that usually make the men in the relation run from them?
  2. Do guys usually prefer girls who stay to themselves and open up when they themselves open up or those who are available any time?

Re: If the girl is more forthcoming in the relation?

I dnt think guys would like chipku type girls :bummer: but what do i know :smack:.

I am a girl and i don’t like chipku type of people, now that is what i know for sure :snooty:.

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I don’t know but scenario varies. A chipku or open wife is acceptable, i mean surprises & too much sharmana ghabrana doesn’t really help attract the men much.

In case of Fiance/GF, I guess the guy would maintain a distance, they usually go after girls who ignore them or have their own life as well :cb:

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thats not ''forthcoming''.........thats crazy obsessive nuts stalkery clingy weirdo...

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LOL - I don't think its obsessive unless overdone. To a limited extent is the lovable extent but over the line is definitely stalkerish!

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:sadiyah: floooooooood this is cafeeeeeeeeee

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Is this another “Wife A” or “Wife B” type of situation? Haven’t we already beaten that horse to death?!? :hmmm:

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^no khattichic............. there is no vehshi libido involved.........so its not that.

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I scream again. THIS IS cafeeeeee.flooooooooodddddddddd

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OP will h ate me for ruining her thread>.<

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Point noted.....

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:cb:

P.S :emmy:

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I thought you would say divorce :hehe:

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:hehe:

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Depends on WHY she's initiating everything - is he being a lazy git or is she just naturally more forthcoming?

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Nomi, if you don’t want to be called insert play on name here (Oohps)…then leave my Khatti alone. It’s only the latter part of your former post that I found funny. :snooty:

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I would prefer a more balanced relationship.

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depends on what type of a guy he is since everyone is of a different nature.

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:wub:

must admit, i find your possesiveness rather saaaxy…

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and I was like wth, you were liking his posts. thanks for clarification .