wah wah ab jawab nahin aya… kya baat hain…
Yes I do know a few desi families living in this situation. The wives are unhappy, the children are unhappy (all four of them), the in-laws are unhappy.
I have also seen a black man that was with two women, the only reason both of the women were ok with it was that they were lesbians.
Point being it happens, some can make it work, most I have seen cant. But if a man can make it work so can a woman. I think I have clearly backed that point up by explaining several factors.