Re: If marriage has so many problems then why do they marry ?
I don’t have a MIL who would call my parents and tell them all sorts of stuff (so I should consider myself lucky?) I have only FIL and BILs and SILs and they don’t call me …. In fact the funny part is that they NEVER called me not on Eids/New Year or on my birthday….not even once literally. And my husband is like we are younger and youngster are suppose to call elders. What he is missing out is that it’s not the matter of who is gona call first it’s the matter of accepting and showing love and care and to tell the other person that we do miss u and we have a bounding…… as I said they don’t seem to accept me as part of the family not when I was living with them…..I am a very social and friendly person so when I was in my in-laws house, even though all my SIL are way older than me I still tried to be friendly with them but whenever I tried to join them they would all go quite and I would feel awful and felt that I am invading their privacy so I would quietly walk away….. they would all go for shopping and never for once bothered to take me or at least ask me if I want to go with them….. I would be left alone at home.