Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
you wont be happy if you let him do that.
Paki, he does not need to explain .. but Afro has a point .. if he is happy then he should want to see the wife happy too, and wife will not be happy if he brings another woman, which should make him unhappy (unless he is a selfish guy) that his first wife is not happy .. which will make your thread title invalid for any further discussion
she nvr said HE is happy.....she said he keeps HER happy.
either way...doesnt make sense for a wife to throw her husband at another woman.
NOT true!!!
i agreeeeeee
because...question arises "if he is happy wid YOU?"(at least this is my view) if u can not make him happy so u shud definitely let him marry again.
if you can not make him happy....then let him go.
their is nothing wrong or right about his idea. it is a choice, like do you want to go left or right.
Islamically, a man can make that choice or can live happily with just one wife. He is not obligated to do one or the other, but if he has reasons, he can chose to do one or the other.
however, its somewhat become a cultural taboo to even bring that topic up.
Someone whose upbringing was in a polygamous household with multiple mothers, their views are very different. (whether they come from our culture or not)
It's just on not our culture - it's the also a mainstream thought in most western countries. In most countries it's illegal to have more than one partner.
In islam - you can have more than one wife. You do not have to ask the wife or even her persmission. Is it what it is.
Paki is a girl 
anyway, yes title days “he keeps her happy” and will she be happy if he brings another woman? So in order to keep her happy, he needs to stick with her, or she will be unhappy, and that would make the thread title invalid for any further discussion
Why would a normal man, having survived a shipwreck, want to set sails all over again? just wondering.
For the love of vessels!
Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
Since he doesn't need my permission, I can't really control what he does. If he wants to marry the second time, he'll go ahead. The real question is, will I continue to be his wife? Well, that largely depends on his reason for second nikaah.
Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
OK, if my husband keeps me happy, and I keep him happy, then kya pagal doggy ney mujhay kataa hai ki mey bolun.. pyarey shohar, aap itnay achay hain meri jaan, ki mey aap ko birthday mein doosri biwi laa key deyti hoon
Polygamy is not a bad setting at all. It can be very fruitful. But it can only be successful if every person involved in the setting know their position, their boundaries, their job. It's a highly desciplined system. The division of work, division of funds, and the division of love has to be very skillfully maintainted. It can be very disastrous for people who dont know what they are into.
Ok I think I should leave this thread Before people start throwing rotten tomatoes at me ...
Illogical.
y u just think abt urself....my answer is simple but for sensible persons ONLY.
if ur husband is happy wid u,and u r happy wid him = no clash
husband keeps u happy but he is not happy by u =????
so the title of the thread should be “If you realize that you cant keep your husband happy, would you let him marry again”
Paki, he does not need to explain .. but Afro has a point .. if he is happy then he should want to see the wife happy too, and wife will not be happy if he brings another woman, which should make him unhappy (unless he is a selfish guy) that his first wife is not happy .. which will make your thread title invalid for any further discussion
oooo, I don't want this topic to turn into a religious thing but TLK, plz watch out what you say, our prophet (PBUH) had 9 (some say 11 or 13) wives at a time and he was the most selfless (opposite of selfish) that Allah ever created.
As a forum director you should not say anything even indirectly that can offend anyone regardless of your religious believes
And I am not a girl, I am a man, at-least I was, last time I checked....
Regards
so the title of the thread should be "If you realize that you cant keep your husband happy, would you let him marry again"
and the answer would b ...YES
Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
Such a thought never ever crossed our minds. Marriage is beautiful with just one person. :)
BTW, you being a wife, can't divorce your husband. Only husband can divorce in Islam
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A muslim woman can divorce her husband in one of three ways - if she did not request the right of divorce in her nikkah nama, she may go to a qadi with a valid reason (abuse, he can't bear children, he fails to fulfill his obligations to her, he is a murtad, etc.) and apply for a divorce. If she chooses not to take this route, she may apply for a khula, in which case she needs to return the mahr.
If, like me, she has the right of divorce written into her contract, she may simply inform him that she is divorcing him and begin the process.
Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
Two of my uncles have married twice. Both of their households are a hotbed of conflict. So for the husband's, the wife's and the children's sake a big fat no!
and the answer would b ...YES
I like the title as it is, plz come up with your own title, don't steal anyone's ideas....
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Re: If husband keeps you happy, would you let him marry again.
Yes of course I would! He could go live in her house and smell it out inside of mine, leaving the monies behind of course.
Serioulsy. I wouldnt really have a problem with it depending on the circumstances.