Niksik Baji
I feel our pain sister....but you should refrain from reffering Allah's laws as 'sad realities'. He is the most HIKMAT WALA, you can't disagree with that sista...
Regards
NO offence.....but polygamy is not practical in today's world....regardless of religion. If you actually care to follow the rules of Allah and you actually are what your name suggests(Paki American) then I would be the first one to attend your second marriage and then witness you rot in jail.....