oooo, I don't want this topic to turn into a religious thing but TLK, plz watch out what you say, our prophet (PBUH) had 9 (some say 11 or 13) wives at a time and he was the most selfless (opposite of selfish) that Allah ever created.
As a forum director you should not say anything even indirectly that can offend anyone regardless of your religious believes
And I am not a girl, I am a man, at-least I was, last time I checked.... Regards
I realized that when I used the word Selfish for a husband who is going for second wedding, some one will bring the example of Prophet.
But, read my words again please. I am not saying that guy who is marrying again is selfish, I am saying that if your wife keeps you happy and you are not worried about her happiness, then that is selfishness.