oh honey i will tell you as nicely as possible--you are soooo sooo naive and wrong on so many levels.
sex before marriage is a sin. full stop. no conditions. thats it.
You can do whatever you want, its your life and your afterlife, but please do not misguide others and turn a wrong into a right.
EXACTLY. Whoa.. sometimes, I just can't believe what I read here.
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Sex b4 marriage is a sin. But if your gonna marry the guy then its not
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And UNLESS you've SEEN the future, how do you know for sure your "gonna marry the guy"? And even if you do, its STILL a sin.. because at the time you did it with him, he wasn't your husband.
How can ANYONE be sooo sure that their 'fiance' will ACTUALLY end up being their husband/wife? You can't. Yes, you might INTEND on getting married, but engagements do break and it happens around us quite often. You can use life1 as an example.. how many times is the advice "don't marry the guy" given? Or the threads saying "my fiance is a jerk" etc?
Like sara said, do what you like with your life. But don't misguide others.
Excuse me if people are gonna follow what people say on this website they are retarded! Its a website people say what they want FREELY!
Some1 asked a question and people are free to say what they like. IF people want to sleep with people let them. If they dont then dont. But i assure you Majority of people that you marry wont be virgin's. And its not hard to lie about it either.
This topic has no right answer, Its jus like the 'tattoo' subject. You will never kno whats right or wrong. Live and Let live. Seriously dont get too excited its jus a internet site. Relax!
Excuse me if people are gonna follow what people say on this website they are retarded! Its a website people say what they want FREELY!
Some1 asked a question and people are free to say what they like. IF people want to sleep with people let them. If they dont then dont. But i assure you Majority of people that you marry wont be virgin's. And its not hard to lie about it either.
This topic has no right answer, Its jus like the 'tattoo' subject. You will never kno whats right or wrong. Live and Let live. Seriously dont get too excited its jus a internet site. Relax!
the right answer is what islam asks of you
personal answer is bs that a person makes up to make him/herself feel good about their deeds.
As you are only 215 posts young, I feel it is my duty to tell you that this site is full of preachy know-it-alls who like to mob-attack, vigilante stylee.
hitchki be fair. mb u can do watever u want w ur life. but wen it comes to the question of whether sex before marriage is a sin, anyone who knows even a little bit abt islam will know the right answer.
^ lol listen. All im sayin is everyone started attacking me for what i said. I mean c'mon you all had your say im jus sayin what i THOUGHT was right.
Again this wasnt meant to be from a islamic point of view. It was jus a normal point of view. Why are people sayin if he asked you he isnt worth marrying?! i mean c'mon If your the girl hes gonna marry then why not, Its normal for him to say it.
And if he thru it back in ur face, Hellooo it takes TWO. Stand up for your self girls!
hitchki be fair. mb u can do watever u want w ur life. but wen it comes to the question of whether sex before marriage is a sin, anyone who knows even a little bit abt islam will know the right answer.
This topic wasnt frm a ISLAMIC point!
Ok then what the hell is the point asking this question on a PAKISTANI website!! seriously when you all kno everyone is gonna say NO!
Announcement: Sex before marriage is HARAM. Yes, if indeed you do get married to the person that you had sex with you are supposed to ask for forgiveness from Allah SWT from the heart and really mean it. Doesn't mean you can abuse this.
Oh and apart from that announcement^to each his own. You want to have sex, you are most welcome to do so. Please don't advocate wrongful things on here. Forget sex, even interaction with the opposite sex is haram. Oh did you know if your fiance looks at you in a lustful manner, he is committing eye prostitution? So in a way you both have already done sex. Doesn't matter.
There is no such thing as engagement or fiance in Islam. It is nikkah and then milkah period and then the actual rukhsati when you go to your husband's home. So this fiance is still na mehram to you because he is not your husband. If he looks at you lustfully, with sex on his mind or whatever he is committing eye prostitution.
Announcement: Sex before marriage is HARAM. Yes, if indeed you do get married to the person that you had sex with you are supposed to ask for forgiveness from Allah SWT from the heart and really mean it. Doesn't mean you can abuse this.
Oh and apart from that announcement^to each his own. You want to have sex, you are most welcome to do so. Please don't advocate wrongful things on here. Forget sex, even interaction with the opposite sex is haram. Oh did you know if your fiance looks at you in a lustful manner, he is committing eye prostitution? So in a way you both have already done sex. Doesn't matter.
I hope you have a nice married life. Cheers.
Again if people do follow what people say on here on this Life forum, They havnt exactly experienced LIFE. How can people on here giv advice when they dont even no the real situation? I worked that out when i put a post up on here. And i realised how stupid i am for putting it up bcoz no one knws the real situation.
This is not a islamic point, Its a simple free subject, No need to get all heated up about it, And no one is provoking wrong things.
Again dont put up something on here which you kno everyone is gonna say no and see it frm a muslim point. Because when you do say it frm a non islamic point you get bashed for it. Seriously are you people for real?
There is no such thing as engagement or fiance in Islam. It is nikkah and then milkah period and then the actual rukhsati when you go to your husband's home. So this fiance is still na mehram to you because he is not your husband. If he looks at you lustfully, with sex on his mind or whatever he is committing eye prostitution.
Blackforest wait for my new thread on this matter in Life 1 with backup of Hadees saying lustful looks is haram and explaining what eye prostitution is. Thanks much.
Again if people do follow what people say on here on this Life forum, They havnt exactly experienced LIFE. How can people on here giv advice when they dont even no the real situation? I worked that out when i put a post up on here. And i realised how stupid i am for putting it up bcoz no one knws the real situation.
This is not a islamic point, Its a simple free subject, No need to get all heated up about it, And no one is provoking wrong things.
Again dont put up something on here which you kno everyone is gonna say no and see it frm a muslim point. Because when you do say it frm a non islamic point you get bashed for it. Seriously are you people for real?
Really? I don't think so. I disagree. I think people experience life and when they have difficulties or when they achieve something they come on here and share it with the rest of us. People assume and think hypothetically, I give you this much. However it is the same with if for example you have some symptoms and you go to the doctor. He/she will hear you out and tell you it could be this, it could be that.
This is exactly how the life forum works, we tell you what is possible and give you advice as to what you could do. Does not mean we are HITLER and dictate your life. If you have brains enough to come here and ask a question, then you have brains enough to analyse the advice given by the members of life 1 forum and come to a conclusion and a decision on your own. Oh and the people here are really helpful, helped lots of people with their problems. Sorry, you are new and ignorant.
You say topic is not Islamic and people are free to say all sorts of things then people are also free to give you an Islamic point of view. Oh and we are not dumb, we see and know something is wrong and we are just pointing it out. It is up to you to ignore it or pay heed to what we have to say. No one is forcing you to acknowledge our 2 cents.
Yes indeed we are real, are you real as well or a spider created by Google to come and spread havoc:)
Dubaiwali ... lady u need to chill out a bit ... lustful looks is haram probably but is not the same thing as having sex like u suggested in other post of yours and i don't even kno wat eye prostitution means ... so yea i'm not even gonna comment on that ... as far as this thing that everyone is going after mixed beauty is concerned ... again everyone needs to chill out a bit ... the poster who started the thread asked for people's opinion and no one did it say that it has to be islamic or even morally correct for that matter ... so if someone comes here and posts something then that is their opinion and it does not in any way have to be islamic because as far as i kno its not an islamic forum its a public one and if you disagree with someones opinion then politely disagree and move on with your opinion ... no need to go after someone because they did was the thread starter asked them to do i.e. express their opinion ... so hate the game not the player and live and let live ...
as far as the thread is concerned i don't really think unmarried couple should do it do it ... but in my opinion they should be given alone time (whether on msn or in person) to get to kno each other a little bit better and to my knowledge i think that much is allowed islamically as well.
Really? I don't think so. I disagree. I think people experience life and when they have difficulties or when they achieve something they come on here and share it with the rest of us. People assume and think hypothetically, I give you this much. However it is the same with if for example you have some symptoms and you go to the doctor. He/she will hear you out and tell you it could be this, it could be that.
This is exactly how the life forum works, we tell you what is possible and give you advice as to what you could do. Does not mean we are HITLER and dictate your life. If you have brains enough to come here and ask a question, then you have brains enough to analyse the advice given by the members of life 1 forum and come to a conclusion and a decision on your own. Oh and the people here are really helpful, helped lots of people with their problems. Sorry, you are new and ignorant.
You say topic is not Islamic and people are free to say all sorts of things then people are also free to give you an Islamic point of view. Oh and we are not dumb, we see and know something is wrong and we are just pointing it out. It is up to you to ignore it or pay heed to what we have to say. No one is forcing you to acknowledge our 2 cents.
Yes indeed we are real, are you real as well or a spider created by Google to come and spread havoc:)
Relax yourself! How am i being ignorant?? and whats NEW got to do with it darlin.** Does not mean we are HITLER and dictate your life. **Exactly so let me say what i want and u say what u want, stop repeating your self over n over. You wanna say it frm islam Mashallah keep it up. But Again lets not make it into a islamic topic, Otherwise move this to the Religious forum. SIMPLE! Gosh you need to relax!!!
Dubaiwali ... lady u need to chill out a bit ... lustful looks is haram probably but is not the same thing as having sex like u suggested in other post of yours and i don't even kno wat eye prostitution means ... so yea i'm not even gonna comment on that ...** as far as this thing that everyone is going after mixed beauty is concerned ... again everyone needs to chill out a bit ... the poster who started the thread asked for people's opinion and no one did it say that it has to be islamic or even morally correct for that matter ... so if someone comes here and posts something then that is their opinion and it does not in any way have to be islamic because as far as i kno its not an islamic forum its a public one and if you disagree with someones opinion then politely disagree and move on with your opinion ... no need to go after someone because they did was the thread starter asked them to do i.e. express their opinion ... so hate the game not the player and live and let live ... **
as far as the thread is concerned i don't really think unmarried couple should do it do it ... but in my opinion they should be given alone time (whether on msn or in person) to get to kno each other a little bit better and to my knowledge i think that much is allowed islamically as well.
Unfortunately, I have been trying to go to Jumeirah Beach to chill and relax from the past 2 days but I have failed to do so. Hence the frustration here in this thread after reading it.
Don't worry, I prayed a lil dua for all us Muslim ladies and men.
