if he asks you to...

Lifestyle Relationships
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To what extent would you go with your fiance, and i mean physical interaction. some opinions from both girls and guys would be appreciated.

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Re: if he asks you to…

depends how long you know the person, how comfortable you are and how much you trust your significant other, however it is a much more tough decision for a girl then a guy, but nonetheless my 2 cents.

However my response is not based on Islam, as per our religion, nothing doing before marriage, kullu haraam :nono:

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if he is asking you to do things before marriage then he isnt worth marrying.

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just do nikaah, you won't have to worry about any limitations! :)

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Not a single step. No physical interaction ....creates many social and religious issues. If he is asking even for a little, you need to think again if he is a right person

Period.

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kaun, zarra Islamic research bhi karr hi lo.

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This.

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i understand that its completely haram and i agree that doing anything with a guy before marriage is haram (no matter how close you are, how much you trust him). if its haram its haram.
but these guys people do hang out before marriage, get to know each other.
what if the argument is that "since we're engaged and we are gonna get married, why wait". i think its a stupid argument.
anyway, guys..exactly how difficult is it for you to wait. are the temptations of this world so great that you cannot resist.
also, how many guys are not virgins before marriage.

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lol, my latter part of the post does advise not doing it, its just that initially i show girls my liberal side ;)

All kidding aside it all depends on how islamic you are, i know girls who wear hijab by choice and do it and then there are girls who are liberal and modern and choose the right path.

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"also, how many guys are not virgins before marriage."

^Why would anyone give this sort of personal info to you?

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Just don't make it into a hijabi and non hijabi issue. Please

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yea? no one would ever divulge that info.

this thread is weird.

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the issue isnt Hijab.

The issue is diversity.

Some people can handle temptation and others cant. Simple.

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Hareem, i am not, thats not what i meant, what i meant is that i am not generalising but i have seen ppl who preach about islam and everything give into temptations and then i have others who are modern and everything but who did not. Khair its going to turn into one of those arguments thus i rest my case :k:

In the end i think it all goes from person to person as to how much they can resist their temptations.

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i'm not asking for personal confessions. i'm just asking guys in general if they wait or dont wait or if their friends or those around them have waited...

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I say do a trial run and make a baby, just to be sure that you are comfortable with the whole deal :k:

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Personally, I know of many guys and girls who do all that beforehand and then get married.

Each to their own. We will all lie in our own graves and pay for our own sins.

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Exactly.

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WAAH JEE WAAH, CHANGEE GAL KITEE HAI :k:

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Chill people. A little bit of hanky panky is OK. gets the guy motivated to propose faster and get married. It's all part of the natural progression. Don't fight nature.

Disclaimer: I do not intend on laying next to you in your grave.