victory 
:bhangra:
on a more serious note, life is too short and ppl make everthing a big deal, at the end of the day your decision should satisfy you cuz whatever happens well you are the one who got to live wid it for the rest of your life :k:
Re: if he asks you to...
Man, I wasnt even allowed in the same street as my fiancee, let alone in the same bed!!!!!
But I wouldnt do the deed - if you've waited this long, wait until you are married!!!
I mean, you might decide hes 'no good' or he doesnt have enough lead in his pencil...and want to call the wedding off (and vice versa!)
lol nach karo bhai 
Sometimes its tempting......:D
But no. Gotta wait it out for the wedding.