Hi MB i read all your posts on this topic and all i would like to ask you this question, why do ppl get married? To be honest majority dont do it because our religion says so but the fact that our society dictates that and we all do it for our society acceptance. If i go by what you are saying than why marry at all, atleast this way you dont have to go through with the extra baggage as well as the pain of divorce and mind you in north america as a guy i would be saving everything i own as i wont have to pay for settlement :D. I am a muslim and a practicing one at that but i dont always base my decisions on religion always because ppl dont always understand or agree with them.
Sorry i dont get your post. Whats being muslim got to do with this thread? We get married like you said for society acceptance, Right only in our culture. 90% of things Pakistanis do is thru CULTURE. But no one says anything then abt Islam. Theres alot of things i've question'd to pakistanis about why do u do this when islam says so n so. But they dont listen. I simply answerd the question. It says FINACE not go have one night stands Luv. Thought u read my posts? Anyway .. can i jus say if your a practising muslim you shudnt tell anyone as it clearly says. It shud be Thru you and Allah. Theres no need to tell the world. As Allah doesnt like that!