Excuse me if people are gonna follow what people say on this website they are retarded! Its a website people say what they want FREELY!
Some1 asked a question and people are free to say what they like. IF people want to sleep with people let them. If they dont then dont. But i assure you Majority of people that you marry wont be virgin's. And its not hard to lie about it either.
This topic has no right answer, Its jus like the 'tattoo' subject. You will never kno whats right or wrong. Live and Let live. Seriously dont get too excited its jus a internet site. Relax!
the right answer is what islam asks of you
personal answer is bs that a person makes up to make him/herself feel good about their deeds.
but to each his own:)