How can ppl easily mention da fact about leaving wives…!!!
This is a complicated issue, & no lk, its not about life & death, this is not a hindi movie…, but it certainly sounds like 1…
You obviously cannot leave ur wife, & I would also like to point da fact that divorce is da only legal thing that Allah Almighty disliked da most…!!!
There has to be understanding between both da parties, this is a pure case of jealousy, da only person I can find answering logically is Ira & Destinee, sorry I didnt feel like going thru others who said mom is everything. Agreed parents have a higher status in da Holy Quran & they raised us, fed us, groomed us, gave us a life, but u have to also see da fact that a marriage has taken place with mutual consensus…!
Ok, so if da wife is a witch & wants to see a broken home, in that scenario, I would agree to da mother’s behaviour, but if its unfair on da wife, coz da guy is showering his love on da wife & not on da sisters, I would recommend that da guy bring them both to a round table conference, & not include da bitchy sisters…!
don’t hide behind religion for an answer to this question. Its a moral choice. It’s something that goes across the board through all religions. It’s a question that can’t be answered hypothetically. It can only be answered if you were actually faced with that choice. It’s kind of like being asked if you would sacrifice the lives of your family if it meant saving the entire planet from total annihilation.
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*Originally posted by brothanpakistan: *
mal1k,
don’t hide behind religion for an answer to this question. Its a moral choice. It’s something that goes across the board through all religions. It’s a question that can’t be answered hypothetically. It can only be answered if you were actually faced with that choice. It’s kind of like being asked if you would sacrifice the lives of your family if it meant saving the entire planet from total annihilation.
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This is a public forum, & trust me I wouldnt love my problems all over da internet, but in fact I would love to see good conclusions, & help ppl, as far as I can...!
he shouldnt even be put into that position where he has to make that decision. Its rather inconsiderate and testing of his love… its actually making fun of his feelings for both women..
mothers need to realise, that they will eventually have to share their son.. but its not that his love is going to be divided.. the love a child has for his/her mother should never be compared to that to of ones spouse.. they are completely different and unique in their own way
and same goes for the wife.. she should be patient and understanding.. ur not the only love in ur mans life..
i dont understand why people do not comprehend such simple relationships.. what is the need to complicate them?
p.s and again.. the sister(s) need to stay out of it
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*Originally posted by lussi: *
mother...no matter how good a wife is..she can never take preference over a man's mother..
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Yeah, that's the sentiment amongst most guys here, and there's nothing wrong with that, but its just the reasoning behind it , that a wife is replaceable, that's wrong in many ppls minds...
, but it certainly sounds like 1…
