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Is that the same guy?
As for the crying, sometimes its inevitable. You see strong athletes cry after achieving or even missing milestones, emotions get the best out of the strongest at times.
yeah it is the same guy....
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forget immature or caring....but do you think he is capable of handling the difficulties of married life!?...or will he just start crying again?
well his crying didn't seem fake, I know it was real. but this is what I wonder too if he can handle it or not...
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regardless of whether he breaks down and cries or not.....nothing will change the fact that you are unable to get together, right? then who cares? count your blessings and move on. and by blessings I mean: 1. if he is putting an act on then at least he is leaving you with the impression that he cares truly, madly, deeply or 2. since there is no future at least he is ending the relationship before it went too far.
nothing in life is impossible, I know we can get together in the end, but it will require us to struggle and face difficulties (mainly being our families) in getting there.
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well his crying didn't seem fake, I know it was real. but this is what I wonder too if he can handle it or not...
That is harsh. Judging someone after they cry just seems plain wrong, especially in this case where the issue is about marriage.
He is human after all and if the tears are genuine then it shows how much he cares. He clearly does not want to spend the rest of his life with someone else.
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My mother says.....
Hassti hoi aurat aur rotay huway mard ka aitbaar nahi karna chahiay.
and i have seen it true most of the times.
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i dont think there is something wrong with men crying, but in this situation to me it says: i cant do anything, which mean its a sign of him letting u go because he is too weak...
Or like MKD said...
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asking popl on the forum to interpret ur guys tears? either ur stone hearted or just lack brains!
no one here cn tell u better thn u urself wat his intentions are and what his tears meant!
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i dont think there is something wrong with men crying, but in this situation to me it says: i cant do anything, which mean its a sign of him letting u go because he is too weak...
Or like MKD said...
When a men cries and shows that he cant do anything.....
thats a sign for women that whatever needs to be done..she needs to do. lolz
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asking popl on the forum to interpret ur guys tears? either ur stone hearted or just lack brains!
no one here cn tell u better thn u urself wat his intentions are and what his tears meant!
Exactly.
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well it could be the case that he is immeture or not capable of handling the pressure of peers or the difficulties that u people would b facing but...i personally know many people with such an innocent face that one can not even guess that they could ditch any body ...but reality is a bit worst than we can think....they are habitual....they seek attention of innocent girls...play with them ...use them n when they start asking them for marriage ...they play such stunts thay one cant even imagine...m not blaming any one but just discussing what the actual situation could b.....
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When a men cries and shows that he cant do anything..... thats a sign for women that whatever needs to be done..she needs to do. lolz
hehe yess exactly!
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that you are in a relationship with breaks down and starts crying in front of you because there are difficulties preventing both from getting married....Does it mean he really cares or that he's a little immature and not ready to handle the difficulties we'd face when we get our parents involved?
Haaniya,
Considering how society expects men to be tougher and considers it unmanly if they cry....I'd think that if he broke down and cried before you.........it would.........at the very least.... indicate that the issue at hand is something that matters to him. People usually don't react so strongly about things that they don't really care about.
I've seen grown men.....who are generally very responsible/committed/strong.......cry when they're frustrated. They're human....it happens. Now, if the crying happens a lot (and this of course is subjective)...then that might be a problem for some people.
Since what you're asking is a subjective question....the responses will vary...therefore there is really no right or wrong answer. In my opinion, i think it's kinda "early" for him to start crying....when the predicted "difficulties" have not yet been tackled (since families are not yet involved). This does not necessarily mean that he won't have the courage to address/handle them. Sometimes, if one feels so strongly about attaining something....they give it their best shot.
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yes :k:
In my opinion real men (like someone used the word) don’t cry often and when they cry it’s something very serious. On the other hand I have seen someone who could cry on every petty issue . Some people out there use their “magar mach kay ansoo” to emotionally black mail others. In my opinion , it was too early to cry for that guy if I were you I would have found it very disturbing as well …but may be he is more emotionally attached with you than you know or may be he just wants you to know how much he wants to be with you and he can clearly see things not working out …may be he is planning to move on.
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Unless he was faking it up, one thing is for sure — he think of you as a part of himself. Men normally dont cry in these matters unless they are with mom or wife.
Secondly, I am amazed to see all the posts about him being immature *because *he cried. Men are human too and sometimes emotions get good out of them. On one hand girls complain how their husband/bf never show emotions etc etc and now when he has shown some, he is immature 
May be just for this very reason men dont show emotions in front of girls! 
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Wow,
I am speechless at the question it self. Being a guy if something like that happed to me and if I was with the person whom I trusted more then anything, I too might let it out and vent. But I is sad that "Guy you are in a relationship with" cried his eyes out and you need GS folks to tell you if he is immature? I'm sure he is mature enough to love someone.. but are you mature enough to love him back.. or you need GS help in that too..?
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asking popl on the forum to interpret ur guys tears? either ur stone hearted or just lack brains!
no one here cn tell u better thn u urself wat his intentions are and what his tears meant!
THAT!
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Hassti hoi aurat aur rotay huway mard ka aitbaar nahi karna chahiay.
hawww. :(
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Lo 
Tau phir kiya hanstay huay mard aur roti huee aurat ka aitbaar karna chahiyay 
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There are only 3 occasions at which a man is allowed to cry:
- At the birth of his children, really only the first child
- At the death of someone from his immediate family
- At the end of the Return of the King when they're saying good bye at the Grey Havens
Any other time, he's a pu$$y!
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He must have cried infront of you on skype :p girl....grow up....he was passing time with you...may be you have taken it so far....hence he decided to better breakup with an excuse!