Prove it !
You are watching a lot of Star news and seems like you are getting your facts from Times of India 
The only war lost against you was in 1971 and everyone knows how and why. As for 1999, everyone knows how Few hundred pak jawans took on Indian coward soldiers. I posted just one example of our soldier in this thread to show you how we fought your army.
I have many more examples and if you want i will them here before you.
In Kargil war, we were truly all over you. Our jawaans fought with great Jazaba and outclassed your army, despite the fact that they were larger than us in [quantity]. We won the kargil war but as i said before - from Political Point of View we lost it badly. We came under huge pressure from Western World and that is when we withdrew our troops. And remeber it was INDIA who cried in front of the world and asked for ‘other countries help’ to persuade pak to withdraw its troops.
As far as casualites are concerned, you suffered far more looses than us, check your own government figures and check ours. Stop watching bollywood thrash and face the truth.
And last but not least, your coward army only managed to attack us when we were withdrawing our troops. That is when we suffered looses but still they were still no way near the looses your army suffered.