Well in 1948 we captured a third of Kashmir.
In 1965 we fought Indian until it agreed to a ceasefire…i.e it knew that it could not defeat Pakistan.
In Kargill we pre-empted a war with India that the BJP government that had been threatening Pakistan with since it took office. After Kargill they shut up. A few hundred men held out against ten of thousands of Indian soldiers for weeks. They only withdrew when they were ordered to by the Pakistani government.
A few times India has massed troops on the border only to be told by their military leadership that they could not win a war…and it would end up in stalemate.
We have grown and our adversary with India has made us stronger.