Re: I wrongfully accused my husband of abuse—please please help!!!
I agree with you. However, FALSELY accusing the husband of mental and physical abuse…an accusation that can not only destroy the man’s reputation but also land him in jail is one of those “exceptions” in my opinion.
In her first post she clearly write that she and her never had an argument or fight. IF she was mistreated by his parents…then she needs to make the abuse accusations against them. I can understand this type of behavior from a 22 year old naive girl living in Pakistan. But being 30, this being her 2nd marriage & living in the U.S…no amount of “fear” from her own father or whatever…NOTHING justifies this woman’s willingness to follow her father’s suggestion and falsely accuse her husband in writing of abusing her.
Have you ever met a cancer patient who refuses to give up smoking? Even though he/she knows that continuing to smoke will lead to more suffering/death. Have you ever met someone who has heart problems/diabetes etc. and knowing all the risks…still refuses to make any lifestyle changes?
Admitting past mistakes and feeling sorry for those mistakes are worthless if a person is not willing to do anything to change their present/future behavior. The fact that Sameena is posting here, instead of picking up the phone and calling her husband…the fact that Sameena has done NOTHING to stand up to her father shows that nothing has changed. Words are worthless if actions don’t back it up.