Re: I wrongfully accused my husband of abuse—please please help!!!
You are absolutely right. I hope your husband is reading this and realizes this. This is the perfect time for your husband to move on and find a stable/confidant woman who actually understands the meaning of marriage.
You two have not been married long and thank GOD there are no children in this miserable situation. Its actually a good thing that your family’s craziness, your lack of maturity and commitment to this marriage came out this early. Your husband needs to open his eyes to just how fast you will turn your back on him. I work in the legal field and have friends who are divorce/criminal attorneys. You’re certainly are not the first woman who accuses her husband of abuse out of spite. Its also not unusual for women to accuse husbands of abusing/molesting children in order to get the father out of the kids life. You have made it crystal clear to your husband that you are not capable of using your own brain, and will not hesitate destroying his life/reputation in order to please your parents. You are not above lying in order to prevent your husband from having access to his children if there were kids involved in this situation. **If he has not done so already, he needs to contact a good lawyer ASAP to protect himself. Accusations of physical abuse can lead to CRIMINAL charges! **
I hope your husband can put aside his emotional feelings and truly look at the type of woman he married. He needs to think about the risk he will be taking by agreeing to continue this marriage. Your husband will have NO ONE to blame but himself if his life is destroyed by your lies in the future if he chooses to continue this tamasha you call marriage.