Re: I wrongfully accused my husband of abuse—please please help!!!
Pardon me but this is a very backward approach.
So there is honor in lying about the reasons for a divorce? What honor do you think your father has in front of Allah swt right now? Do you think your father will get rewarded for what he’s about to make you do? No. This is gunah and I am not sure what strange society you live in but there’s NO honor in GUNAH. You’re committing a sin and calling in honorable.
Your parents disowned you the day you got married…they made you your husband’s responsibility and he yours. Now, they have no right to step in and make you file a divorce especially based on lies.
OP - I don’t think your husband should take you back. He’s much better off without all this junk in his life. BUT the least you should do is make sure you file for divorce honestly…don’t make him out to be an abusive attacker when he’s nothing of the sort.