Re: I wrongfully accused my husband of abuse—please please help!!!
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Oh goodness…where can one begin?
Why are you here? Are you trying to humiliate your husband further? As if what you’ve already done is not enough. Tumhay aakhir us bicharay banday se kya chahiye hai? Kyun ayi ho yahan? Jo kiya hai vo kafi nahin hai?
What kind of family values do you have? Lying and accusing people and calling that honorable?
You should never have gotten married…he should never have fallen for you and this mess would would never have happened.
Is it only me that believes the husband is better off without her?
I don’t think this girl’s behavior will stop because she consistently comes on here to talk about her false baybasi and majboori but does not do a SINGLE thing to actually rectify the damage she’s done. Meaning? She’s not serious…she’s simply venting to get rid of her guilt for the time being. She’s also trying to tell her husband, who according to her, is a GS member that she feels bad. Again, trying to unload her guilt. Why? Because she and her family are committing a GUNAH and they know it. I would die of shame if my parents did what OP’s did.
REAL parents will always tell their daughters to resolve their issues with their husbands. No matter what the issue is. When I went through my divorce, even though I was right and he was wrong…my parents did not support me until I actually proved my case to them and I had gone through counseling as well as the masjid services to resolve the matter.
If the girl was really serious and apologetic…she would have contacted him by now and tried to get back together with him. But she’s not. She is simply using GS as a venting board. She doesn’t want her marriage to work…she is simply trying to clear up her image in his eyes so she doesn’t feel as guilty about her and her parents’ behavior. So she can sleep better at night. That’s all.
There’s no help to be given here people…let’s move on.