Re: I wrongfully accused my husband of abuse—please please help!!!
All the time to talk has passed. It is time to take some action. Do not talk to your parents anymore. Talk to your husband. You have already told us about misgivings of your parents. In your case your parents are abusive. You need to contact your husband somehow and chart out a plan for your future life. If he still does not want a divorce and wants to live with you then call the cops and go to your husbands home with them. Let him know your plans. Your parents are ruining it for you.
Your parents will throw fits and will be angry with you and your husband for a while. They will not commit suicide.
They might send you into deep depression once this divorce happens. I already can sense that you are devastated, desperate and emotionally unstable because of all the drama your parents are creating. They are satisfying their hurt egos at the cost of your divorce.