That was before we knew of the “other” issues.
I will say distance is the wrong approach only because there is already a lack of communication. Distance just makes it worse between a couple that is already at odds to the point ajuba is.
Ajuba, it depends on you and what you want. Do you want to fix your marriage or do you want to coast and live the way you already are? Have you gone for counseling? Have you tried calling a truce and starting fresh?