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PyariCgudia · July 29, 2012, 9:09pm

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Forget a husband, how about a real friend?

PyariCgudia · July 29, 2012, 9:10pm

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You know, someone who doesn't phoonk maar me to smithereens.

redvelvet · July 29, 2012, 9:23pm

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^I think you give the wench way too much credit.

PyariCgudia · July 29, 2012, 9:24pm

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you're right, it's not her fault, it's all mine.

queer · July 29, 2012, 9:40pm

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what about machli mard? he is like you kind and gentle soulmate, and you ignore him so much. :\ ghar ki murghi daal barabar?

PyariCgudia · July 29, 2012, 11:56pm

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See, I'd actually care about your post if I cared for you enough to unblock you and take wisdom from your e-opinions.

Man_with_a_Plan · July 30, 2012, 12:23am

Real friend? I thought all of the Guppans were your true friends.

PyariCgudia · July 30, 2012, 6:54am

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Funny

CoughCough · July 30, 2012, 9:47am

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PyariCgudia · July 30, 2012, 9:38pm

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Haha

nidakibachi · August 5, 2012, 6:24pm

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I found my fiancé on a matrimonial website. Only place he screwed up was being a doctor, having 30 hour shifts, and not having weekends off in most months. Not to mention that there aren't many desis where he lives. He didn't have the time to socialize and ask a girl out so he gave online dating a shot and lucked out.
He's very modern and "western". And he's definitely educated.

I say, give online dating a try. Be very careful and cautious because there are some perverts on there. But there are also a lot of educated and open minded men.

sadzzz · August 5, 2012, 11:41pm

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khattichic:

Pcg, I love you to death, you know I really do but c’mon…seriously!!! Is that what you really think marriage is like!!!

Lemme break it down for and you give you a true picture of what it’s really like on the other side:

Get up get yourself ready while simultaneously stepping over your husbands crap all over the bathroom floor and trying to convince your namoonay children to brush their teeth 1)being alone is a dream come true when you’re trying to pee in peace but can’t because you’re husband needs the checkbook NOW, your kids want to be fed NOW, your MIL wants you to dial a phone number for her NOW 2) you are constantly judged by your husband, your inlaws, your friends, your siblings, kids’ school…there is always someone who can do it better and faster than you 3)you cannot plan your day as you want because the whole households needs and errands and appointments come before your own…I’ve been waiting 3 months for a chance to get a pedicure, hasn’t happened yet 5)endless shopping time?!? Are you kidding me??? Can I have some of what you’re smoking please 6) getting laid and laid again is not all cracked up to be..especially when you have to make the decision of telling your husband no because that would mean getting up at 3:30 am to do ghusl and shower before having to prepare sehri at 4:00 am vs pissing him off because he doesn’t care, he’s not the one flinging parathas at 4:00 am 7) someone buys you shyte?!? Yes, in the early days…wait till you hit your 14th year of wedded bliss, phir batana mujhay 8) I’ll give you that one 9) bahahaaaa!!! when is this supposed to happen when all 3 TV’s in the house are occupied by husband and kids watching their own shows

The grass is always greener on the other side my dear. Don’t get me wrong, I love my husband, children and life more than anything, and would not trade them for anything..BUT, there is a lot more to marriage then just being a “kept women”. It’s a hard and thankless job being a housewife or better yet a full time working mom.

this was gold :k: