NJ you don't understand. Its like growning new things in her every so often. I don't mimick her, I try to use words and ideas she uses. Cant really pull it off.
She is handy-woman her self too. She suerly is making life more complicated for me. Now I got to think.
I understand doofus :) (sorry I felt like saying that).
Desi gals get married fairly early in their lives so they want to breathe, grow, acquire something - be somebody. Let her grow.
If one person is marriage is growing - doesn't mean the other one is shrinking.
She married you for the guy you are and be true to yourself. No need to make it competetion.