Re: I want to move out from parents house! (24yr old girl)
It has been almost a year that I made this thread about moving out due to education. Now, I have achieved so much in life because living on your own helps you stay focus and determined. It really depends on person to person. I had the willingness in me to go far and struggle! I did not get carried away. Thank you all for great suggestions. I make my own living and support myself 100%.
Re: I want to move out from parents house! (24yr old girl)
Do it..it's your life and your first responsibility is to yourself, this is supposed to be the happiest time of your life, our families are really good at emotional black mails and manipulations, don't give into it, tell them..you re an adult you do no need their permission.
Re: I want to move out from parents house! (24yr old girl)
I moved out young. First I moved out for uni, took OSAP but also worked part time and through the summer to pay rent etc. Once I graduated I moved back home for a few months. I was lucky I found a full time job right away too. I never told anyone how much I made and saved at least 25% of my salary every month. When I had enough for the 5% downpayment I bought a condo (again without telling anyone). My parents weren't happy but they came around once I already had a place. The key to all this was that no one ever knew what my real income was. Even now I don't tell anyone, not even my husband. I suggest you do the same. Don't make hasty decisions because then you'll end up where you started and hear more tanas then ever before. Maybe move out for school but still come live with them during summers. Don't tell anyone your salary. Make a separate bank account for your salary and another one for your family to see and save save save.
I hope that your husband is the same secretive type...
I want to move out from parents house! (24yr old girl)
^ Why would you hope that? Is that supposed to be a punishment for keeping her income from her parents and husband?
So glad to hear you are doing well Op!! That's soo amazing!
Re: I want to move out from parents house! (24yr old girl)
^ Why would you hope that? Is that supposed to be a punishment for keeping her income from her parents and husband?
So glad to hear you are doing well Op!! That's soo amazing!
MASHALLAH :)
Re: I want to move out from parents house! (24yr old girl)
Hitman seriously??? I moved out wen I was 22. Never had the ahem ahem that u talk of and my security has never been an issue. I live alone in the UK and my parents have never worried about anything. Oh except that yes they would prefer I wasnt alone and had someone to come home to but thats another story.
With the backing of your parents that possible.But what about those who dont have finances and are cut off from their parents and relatives because they left home.Life ain't easy.Your point has a very limited scope.