Seriously people who ask for dahej should be SHOT… where is it there in Islam that we have to pay???..
you know what, i thought i too will get married payfree like my sister, but there are some ladies whom my granny has asked to search(those searching ladies)..and they are asking for 10k… the funny part is that gram is asking me to pay half…
.. i told her that if it happens, then i will pay the whole,she need not bother to pay…
People are so running behind money, i know my father will give all the household good as well as salaami of 1L cause he did that to my bro-in-law; i wish for a hub like my bro-in-law, he told that he would walk out of the valima if my father gave him money and all…he is religious minded guy…:)..but he too accepted the money as his parents told him not to be foolish… these old people also…:(…
I have instructed at home that if they are asking for money, then i wont marry that guy…as simple as that…
I dont mind not being married, but i will not compromise on my principles…