I want to be

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^^lollll

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well see the chalaak ones will know what i meant by this and wont get bothered by it na? :blush:

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I give trainings...but i charge for them!!
these are qualities tht i have developed over time :D

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^ hmmm very chalak of you ! to charge us for something tht’s just an everyday normal thing for you :halo:

:cb:

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Mix 2 parts dishonesty, 1 part lack of knowledge about anything beyond pointless gossip, 3 parts ability to ignore Islamic rules about kindness, backbiting, and minding your own business and mix together with a healthy dose of a lack of anything better to do with one's time...and you'll be well on your way to chalaak-dom, whether man or woman.

You're wrong. We can have sabr and pray to Allah for guidance AND recognize our own faults and try to improve.

And don't forget...what goes around, does come around.

امریکی سفارت خانے اور قونصل خانوں کی اردو &#16
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most of the posts by girls here showing they really dont need any training /sign-ups for getting chalak. they already are .... some just need to brush up the skills. Try it on your bhabis and/or MILs

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why do most of the girls living abroad think that girls in pakistan are chalak ?

i mean it is really unfair to generalize....we have all sort of people everywhere....you cant label someone chalak or whatever based on his/her geographical location...

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Sara! You are fine the way you are! :emmy:

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Myth about winning 1965 War
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I need to enrol!!!

My mother (may she reside in Jannah) was never a chalaak woman and hence i dont have any chalakness in me. But I have watched with awe and shock at those women who have their husbands round their little finger, who are rude to their in laws and basically dont give damn about anyone’s feelings, views etc. I cannot be like that, but then, if I need to live in Paks and make sure my hubby does not fall prey to these practices, how the hell am I going to do that?

I cant be like, X(his name!) bacho ko parko, yeh karo woh karo, as a) its bloody rude and (b) his family will hate me for that, what i want is to live in harmony with him, his widowed mother , brother and sisters when they come to visit.

But sometimes I wonder what the magic potion is … :wink:

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i always thought to b like this chalak women and all

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just like my bhabi:D

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hai hai..GS ki baychari bachian ..sari he kitniiiii masoom hein :hehe:

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ohoooo…this is not a mil bashing thread. did i say that anywhere in my post? :hoonh:

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So you are not manipulative and halaak because you dont have the guts to be? I thought you weregood by nature.

Al-Najd - What is it?
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^ Mujhe keh rahay ho?

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my thoughts exactly!

Sara.. its not worth it… I don’t understand how its going to help you to have a happy relationship with your husband and in laws? The thing for you to learn is Ignore and keep ignoring until people get nothing out of it and they will find a new target.. as soon you respond or even prepare to respond, the “chalaki” level goes up.. its never gonna be enough so just ignore such people and their comments!

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ohoo…who said its just for in laws. :mad:

ur right. :frowning:

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oops sorry I just assumed thats its for in laws(because its in life 1 :$).. replace that words with any other chalak person that you want to deal with.. stay the way you are and not worry about such people!

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Rotflol.