I want to be

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I want to be a manipulative, chalaak woman. I want to be someone who makes people do what she wants but they end up doing it becasue THEY want to. u know what i mean?

I want to be someone who portrays an image of everyone loving her and noone could ever imagine she says a bad thing so whoever says anything against me is seen as the crazy one.

oh and i want to be that lady who can say smething indirectly and make another person go crazy.

how do i become one?

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Act like my bhabi.

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Acts like a damn corpse if she catches a cold.

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flip on zee t.v and start taking notes, rehearse in front of the mirror if you must.

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if there are any traning classes I’ll sign up tooo :hehe:

Hejra
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Yes Zeetv would really help you. I'm chalak, but ive been like this since bachpan but not like the women on zeetv. Then again you can just go to pakistan, live with some girls from there and trust me, they'll do you wonders.

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^

are you trying to start war woman!

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LOL. Most girls in Pakistan know how to talk and get what they want. :(

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I am not saying you are but it is a very nice way of saying that you are not this kind of person right now. lol

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By the way, chalak, manipulative or like personality develops with time growing up in the environment where elders/friends etc. are smart, careful and shrewd.

or with some bad event happening due to being naive, kind or honest later in life.
I mean the person looks at the bad event and says, oh that must be due to me being so nice and, look what happened. And then the person develops this careful, more diplomatic behavior.

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Sara honey... if you aren't one (manipulative/chalaak woman) already you are never going to be one.

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I know a woman like that and she watches Geo/ARY/ZeeTV/Star Plus dramas alllll day long....hint hint

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^ I'd rather hand crush red chillis, make a paste out of them, rub them all over my fingertips and then put my lenses on than watch one of those dramas.

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LMAO...Ive often wondered the same things...how to become a chalaak woman with that sharp as a knife tongue that never rests...always knows what to say and when...gets people to do what she wants and they never even suspect...

Lemme know if you figure it out...

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This tells me..you girls are very good people..Sara and PSquared...Keep it up..you don't have to be manipulative or chalaak women..there are enough in this world..

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let's come up with a list of how to become one!

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Why thank you kind sir.

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I want to be that too....i feel like it may save me from a lot of grief from MIL i wish I could match her or at least give her a run for her money instead of just being shocked at what she does to create misunderstandings between hubby and me....i never know what's happening until its too damn late and im like what how did this happen?...she's gonna make my hubby hate me and i have no weapons /starts crying.

I wish my mother had taught me thorri si politics

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you're right bhai but women like us have no way fo fighting back all we can do is watch as ppl manipulate us and our husbands

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haha you just did by dissing the chalaak khawateen in your non-chalaak masoom way, din’t you :faizy: