I need to enrol!!!
My mother (may she reside in Jannah) was never a chalaak woman and hence i dont have any chalakness in me. But I have watched with awe and shock at those women who have their husbands round their little finger, who are rude to their in laws and basically dont give damn about anyone’s feelings, views etc. I cannot be like that, but then, if I need to live in Paks and make sure my hubby does not fall prey to these practices, how the hell am I going to do that?
I cant be like, X(his name!) bacho ko parko, yeh karo woh karo, as a) its bloody rude and (b) his family will hate me for that, what i want is to live in harmony with him, his widowed mother , brother and sisters when they come to visit.
But sometimes I wonder what the magic potion is … 