I' ve cheated... need help

[canpaki]

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i think u shud spend mre quality time wid ur wife...n make her realise that shes the most imp person in ur life....n that u love her form the bottome of her heart...go out for romantic dinners n spend more time togdr....itll take time for her to get over it ...but eventually she will....good luk!

[nstar777]

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@clubber lang

I've cheated on my wife (not physical/sexual) just became frends wit a gyal at work. even tho wife has 4given me 4 becomin frends,she stil suffers da pain and is hurt and cry's. It looks like i screwed things up in my marraige, is ther anyway bak?

Chill man You have'nt done anything wrong. Everyone needs a friend.

[LegallyBrown]

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a. You’ve lost her trust for ever.

b. You’ve given her full right to cheat on you

c. You are screwed for life

Happy cheating

[canpaki]

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@LegallyBrown

a. You’ve lost her trust for ever.

b. You’ve given her full right to cheat on you

c. You are screwed for life

Happy cheating

dnt b so extreme …n stop scaring the poor guy:D

[_paki_pride]

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awww HOW cud u do that 2 ur wife?! omg i feel so srry 4 her...CANT u calm ur hormones till u get home?!?

[hussain87]

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dun see anywhere cheating involved:confused: ..

[Sara516]

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@hussain87

dun see anywhere cheating involved:confused: ..

doesnt matter if it’s actually cheating or not…
he hurt his wife’s feelings and he shud work on gainign her trust back..

[masoom_se_larki]

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uffo will u ppl PLEASE STOP over reacting and scaring this poor man. stop it, u guys r so dumb sumtimes i swear. wat sum ppl will do to get a laugh and stop talking abt blowjobs and what not, it’s not only mildly disturbing but ur probably embarrassing him in his own thread..

yaar dun listen to these ppl who r exaggerating u haven’t done anything wrong if u haven’t even touched her. i mean friendship with the opposite sex is not wrong as long as u stay in ur limits. as long as it’s just a friendship and u don’t have feelings for her, u haven’t done anything wrong. assure ur wife that u haven’t done anything wrong or shameful, just befriended some1, and if ur wife doesn’t like that, then just keep it to a minimun, dun talk to this coworker so much. ur wife and home is more important then anything, don’t let that break apart just tell ur wife tht u love her and no one else, tell her there is no reason to cry or be so upset

[roadrunner]

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@clubber lang

nah we aint frends anymore cuz da gyal tried to brek my mariage up by tellin ma wife that i liked her n she even told her bf aswel........(as if she never flirted wit me).........anyway i tried to stop being frends 1st but it was kind of hard not to... but now its blown up in2 da skiez!!

wat im i supose 2 do?is ther anything i can do to win bak my wife?

Sound like the type of guy women like to lead on..just end it, save yourself, save us from all the women you give an ego to.

[Khehkeshan]

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You should learn to spell first.

[Pyaari124]

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@clubber lang

like i said i did not do anything as in sexual/phyisical........and my wife believes me on that but she says how cud i ever liked another gyal...

i knw i hav done wrong but on scale how bad is it?i mean we only ever talked, i mite hav liked her (personality wise) n may hav flirted to kill time at work but it wud hav never gone any further

is it crime to like9personality wise) another gyal wen u married but u did not do anything?

• ur just justifing to make it seem like wat u did was "ok" and that it wasn't a big deal. Not good. imagine this ur wife goes to work everyday and she starts liking her co worker's personality and she was just "friends" with him.....how does it feel to hear that samething abt ur wife....the guy may have flirted with her.....wat kind of feeling do u have abt that?

[canpaki]

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u no iv bin seeing the word SEX quite alot today................

[masoom_se_larki]

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@canpaki

u no iv bin seeing the word SEX quite alot today…

i’m sorry.

clubber lang - waisay Pyaari83, i was abt to say the same thing…reverse the situation, wat wud u feel towards ur wife is she had done the same thing? ask urself that

[PhatBalongri]

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@clubber lang

like i said i did not do anything as in sexual/phyisical........and my wife believes me on that but she says how cud i ever liked another gyal...

i knw i hav done wrong but on scale how bad is it?i mean we only ever talked, i mite hav liked her (personality wise) n may hav flirted to kill time at work but it wud hav never gone any further

is it crime to like9personality wise) another gyal wen u married but u did not do anything?

Now put yourself in her shoes...what if she was bored at home and liked the milkman's or the cable guys personality and did some flirting to kill the time at home and "wud hav never gone any further", would it be a crime? Is it a crime if she stares and flirts with another man just to kill time? If not then like LB said Happy Cheating!

[clubber_lang]

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@aishaindubai

not necessarily dr evil or should i say dr love. clubber you should do everything in your might to get her back. tell her that you will leave the job if she wants not neccesary that you do it its just to make her feel good. take her out to romantic dinners and tell her its just me and you and try to revive that spark that was there before all this “other woman” matter

Iv tried the romantic stuff flowers,chocolate,cards,dinners…it works for a few hours but then we end up bak to sqaure 1…yea i told her i wud leave the job n willin 2 as long as same money n can find another job!..i have tried to revive da spark but it alwayz bak of her mind!

[clubber_lang]

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@PhatBalongri

Now put yourself in her shoes…what if she was bored at home and liked the milkman’s or the cable guys personality and did some flirting to kill the time at home and “wud hav never gone any further”, would it be a crime? Is it a crime if she stares and flirts with another man just to kill time? If not then like LB said Happy Cheating!

Listen guyz iv said it b4 in my reply that is she did da same I wud be p off n good knws wat else i wud hav done. Anyway cant u b seriuos 4 once…milkman n cable guyz get a life yo, i aint talkin abt films!

[clubber_lang]

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@masoom_se_larki

i’m sorry.

clubber lang - waisay Pyaari83, i was abt to say the same thing…reverse the situation, wat wud u feel towards ur wife is she had done the same thing? ask urself that

Itz hard 2 say cuz i feel like sayin yea i wud 4give n 4get but datz cuz i want her 2 4give n 4get…so dat iant helpin much

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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Is this the whole story bro or are you trying to seem acceptable to everyone one here...
Cos if the situation is simply you having a friendship with a female and her telling your wife that you like her even though you are adamant that you dont...then i have to say your wife is being ridiculous melodramatic...she should understand that the girl is a troublemaker and she should trust you...i dont know why everyone is giving you a hard time...if you flirted a little bit...big deal...it doesnt matter really...if you didnt do anything then you dont have to carry any guilt...

Carry guilt if you have done something that you arent revealing here...

[clubber_lang]

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@Naughty by Nature

Is this the whole story bro or are you trying to seem acceptable to everyone one here…
…if you flirted a little bit…big deal…it doesnt matter really…if you didnt do anything then you dont have to carry any guilt…

Carry guilt if you have done something that you arent revealing here…

Truth is i said i to her “im starting to like you a bit 2 much and that i hope we can stil be frends” reason y i said that was cuz i didnt wanted it to get out of hand, i was hoping she wud say “get lost im engaged or something” and also i was tryin to figure out whether she liked me or not…but honestly i wud hav never taken it any further…

[clubber_lang]

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@Pyaari83

• ur just justifing to make it seem like wat u did was “ok” and that it wasn’t a big deal. Not good.
  imagine this ur wife goes to work everyday and she starts liking her co worker’s personality and she was just “friends” with him…how does it feel to hear that samething abt ur wife…the guy may have flirted with her…wat kind of feeling do u have abt that?

i admit that i did wrong and im tryin to justify in a way i suppose but is it that bad to ruin a marriage?..