I think 90% of Inlaw threads are the fault of the Brides/Bride to Be

[yourfriend]

Re: I think 90% of Inlaw threads are the fault of the Brides/Bride to Be

@Confucius

We as DIL’s sometimes don’t want to be part of the whole picture, it is more “me and my husband” world we want to live in. It wasn’t a “me and my mother” world before me for my husband it was “me and my family” and if we can get back tot hat then seriously no issues.

I honestly have changed and seen changes in my MIL and this is from me seeing how my SIL treats my mum (good and bad) and see the genuine pain and hurt in my mums eyes.. when she is selfish.

**My husband and I live apart at the moment … but when I go to see them.. I spend time with her specifically, and my young SIL. I make her something she likes, we go for drives as a family. Things which Iw ould automatically for my husband I do now for all. No I don’t act like a servant but I show that I care **..

so apparently when u all were under the same roof you had problems… now that u r living apart and spending some time /hours with your inlaws, things between u and them have changed automatically… distance makes heart grow fonder..:)..nai??
.NOT the 24/7 surveillance /controlling in the name of 'tumko tou main aapni beti bana ker laii hon..
…I am glad things are working for you and May it remain same when you all start living together again …