I think 90% of Inlaw threads are the fault of the Brides/Bride to Be

[Reha]

Re: I think 90% of Inlaw threads are the fault of the Brides/Bride to Be

@Jaanwar

Reha I don’t mean to go all Dr. Phil on you but honestly you sound way too cynical and negative. This self-glorification is perhaps someone’s healthy positive perspective, which is working out fine for her and for many others. There is a clear difference between healthy scepticism and downright cynicism.

I understand I come off as negative and cynical. I know. Maybe I am being a bit too direct here.

What I am hearing is the easy stuff. The little khit pit here and there. This is the easy stuff.

I cannot see “look at me…i ignored my MIL’s biting remarks about my salan and look at how happy i am now…hayyye…meri qurbani” as an example to be admired. Most of us women ignore majority of the things we have to deal with. They come here to vent so you see a bit of that, yes. But most of us DO keep our mouth shut when dealing with in-laws’ drama.

@NomiCA

offcourse they are hell-holes… do you think otherwise?? or rest of your fellow guppans??

they don’t need to create hell hole…the incoming lady comes with all of the hell-hole mindset…

Hmmm.

It seems like NomiCA is saying living with in-laws is like living in a hell hole.

That explains a lot.