Re: “I still miss the first one- every now and then!”
when there is a will there is a way, if you see no way it means you have no will 
Re: “I still miss the first one- every now and then!”
Allow me to be honest sir. You wished but you did nothing about it? Like a million otrher desi guys have the same story line.
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It’s just that i don’t think this is a right place to talk about our private issues, in short this “will and way” theory sounds very nice but is it always applicable in practical world??? You may only find the answer when you find yourself in such a situation 
Re: “I still miss the first one- every now and then!”
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm…you really think so???
Do you really think those “million other desi guys” will give a damn whether the girl will be happy with her husband to be???
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They all wish their girls luck in the end, it goes sumthing like, Allah tumhayn bohat acha larka naseeb karay. Tum ahmesha Khush raho and all that crap.
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…and subtly the thread fizzles out with the usual ending: men bashing.
Every thread in Life1 ends up in this manner. Sometimes, I wonder why some threads in Life go more pages than others before dying out . It has very little to do with how interesting the topic is, and a lot to do with precisely WHEN the bashing starts. Bashing marks the beginning of the end of a thread.
First :queen: —> today, we will talk about a monster women who killed her husband and two kids. The husband loved her, but didn’t show it.
Second :queen: —>Screeech. I am sure the husband didn’t love her. Screeeeech. Or may be the ex-bf was an asshole jerk. Father was abusive, too? Beat the mother? Yeah, it figures.
Desi Women = Jews. Always playing the victim card. You, like our jewish brethern, will go a long way. :k:
Re: "I still miss the first one- every now and then!"
I'm with Rukhsaar on this one.
If there is something missing one should turn inwards into the relationship and try to work things out.
Having said that, I also believe that there are some things about a first love that one just does not forget.
Re: “I still miss the first one- every now and then!”
there is no cure for such women:grumpy:
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Dope Uncle, sssssshhhhhhhhhhh Khamosh. I just don’t like men who are not available.
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^why can't i read your journal? Lemme in, goddammit!!
You have piqued my interest. Hint: B&W.
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^To be honest (and its very rare), I dun even know what b&w is. Though I am grateful me lord dat you have decided to bestow me with your attention.
P.s my journal is private. Only the people who do class A drugs can handle what's written in there.
Re: “I still miss the first one- every now and then!”
true, i allways can find excuses, i can’t do it for this and that reason, but when i dig deeeply into my motivations, i find that i LACK the will, more than the ways…because these ways would disturb my confort:bummer:
so i favor other ways, less painfull, but they could take more time…and I take it as an excuse for my own weakness.
But maybe you’re a strong man without flaws:clown:
Re: “I still miss the first one- every now and then!”
if u don let me into ur journal, im takin u outta mine 
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Sara to be honest ( again), there's nothing in there. Let me make some decent entries in it first. And no you can't and shouldn't take me outta ur journal coz I just Lub reading it , there are so many things that I can identify with.
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Desi Women = Jews. Always playing the victim card. You, like our jewish brethern, will go a long way.................... quote of the century*:D*
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LIAR I know ur hiding your jaith in there 
and keepin both jaith n davar to urself you kameeni 
Re: "I still miss the first one- every now and then!"
Having said that, I also believe that there are some things about a first love that one just does not forget.
I can't even remember who was the first one.
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A bird in the hand is better than two (or one) in the bush.
If your freind dreams about the one in the bush, she could even lose the one in the hand.
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It's amazing how so many different threads can all end in exactly the same way.
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Humans love the things they don't get or are unable to get. IMHO, that is the main reason of love as an emotion. Once love enables you to get the loved one, slowly the reason of love and hence, love itself, whithers away. In the above scenario, as she was unable to consummate her love, that fire will keep on burning for a long time. Had she been successful in her endeavour, she would have been cursing him at this time.
This brings me to the paradox as why women are attracted to a$$h0les, cheaters and philanderers.