Re: i sooooooooooooooo fear infidelity in marriage
what if, the last breath is based on the assurance against infidelity on the part of a man or a woman who is married, & a proof for it??
broken trust, never ever will be repairable. you know this, so why mock this??
Re: i sooooooooooooooo fear infidelity in marriage
For the first time, I think you are saying something wise. I agree with your point.
Re: i sooooooooooooooo fear infidelity in marriage
So many men and women in our traditional arranged marraige setup want to get married to a man or a woman...based on getting a wife or a husband.....not actually wanting an "Ayesha", "Zara"..."Usman", "Omer".....what I mean by this is...They want a WIFE...OR HUSBAND....not the real person tat makesup that Human.....Like the guy Man with the plan was saying.....men just want a lady to be the mother of his kids...and the sugar daddy.....Anyway..its just important to try to make yourself as a HUMAN Complete....and then look for a partner that compliments you.(Not that Tareef sorta Compliment!!!)
Re: i sooooooooooooooo fear infidelity in marriage
Any man with alternatives, will always justify his reasoning.
Completely agree with this point. If someone wants to cheat, whether its out of guilt, a mistake, their nature or watsoever, they can give excuses later and blame the partner. Because that’s the ‘easiest’ thing to do…blame the partner!
But the truth is that cheating on your partner is your choice…do not blame it on the wife or the husband.
People just come with justifications like " I cheated because my wife didn’t give me time" OR “I cheated because I couldn’t resist her/him”…like WhAT?!? 
Is marriage such a weak bond that one can just go out and do anything with anyone just because of some madeup reason 
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People who are sincere with their partners “talk things out” and “discuss” things and “make things work”…they don’t just start cheating like they’re trying different food ina new restarunt to change the flavour! 
Re: i sooooooooooooooo fear infidelity in marriage
Sorry to say Sister Ji, it seems sooooooo negative a point of view.
**If you fear it soooo, **
you will find it soooo,
**Even if it does not exist........:( **
It is all in ones attitude, seems if one has a negative outlook on life, that will surely breed suspicion, and the mind will surely play tricks on ones negative thoughts!
**budgumaani is not healthy...:( **
Re: i sooooooooooooooo fear infidelity in marriage
best way to avoid infidelity in marriage.. very simple
marry a civilized, sincere and decent person
open communication being in shape, blahbidy blahbidy blah is not going to stop a cheater from cheating.
Re: i sooooooooooooooo fear infidelity in marriage
Marriage is build on a trust and communication and understanding, like Sind sagar said don't be pessimistic be an optimistic.And why breaking anyone's trust when didn't do anything wrong.and by chance if u did then u have to tell eeverything to ur better half.In my opinion ur bette half is ur best friend for the rest of ur life after marriage, and u can develop this friendship by communication and understanding each other.MIss dushwari apni life se dushwar sochoon ko nikal ker achi cheezon ke bare mein socho, it will be easier.Marriage is responsibility but its not had.and marriages ALLAH ki taraf se banti hain agar unhon ne kaim rehna hia to ALLAH saath bhi zaroor sete hian