I see this as a lack of self respect

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Re: I see this as a lack of self respect

@ajuba

In my opinion a MIL does not have the right to come and stay at her son’s house for month’s at a time, just for a holiday. I think it is very inconsiderate, especially if the DIL has plainly made it clear that she does not like having her around. Seriously, a month to two month’s should be the max. what do you guys think? do your parents have the right to camp out at your home like this? Is it unreasonable of your wife to have a problem with it? For me personally, I will never do this and neither would my mum. So, I think my MIL has a lack of self respect for staying somewhere for such long periods of time where she knows she’s not wanted. And what about this desi mentality that MILs never stay for long periods at their own daughters homes because they don’t want to upset the husband. why doesn’t the same courtsey and consideration extend to your DILs??

Hmmm I agree with Mabrook’s post and would just add that by the will of Allah you have married your MIL’s son otherwise I don’t think she would have visited you. She is not living in YOUR HOUSE she is living in her SON’S HOUSE. Kuch to right hai unka apnay betay par ? and she is not going to live with you for forever please out of courtesy , out of respect for elders, out of love for islam which teaches us to be kind with guests bear with her for a few more days and be kind with her.

I don’t think it’s a matter of self respect …nope not at all.