MissTY
September 28, 2010, 2:50am
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Re: I see this as a lack of self respect
In my opinion a MIL does not have the right to come and stay at her son’s house for month’s at a time, just for a holiday. I think it is very inconsiderate, especially if the DIL has plainly made it clear that she does not like having her around. Seriously, a month to two month’s should be the max. what do you guys think? do your parents have the right to camp out at your home like this? Is it unreasonable of your wife to have a problem with it? For me personally, I will never do this and neither would my mum. So, I think my MIL has a lack of self respect for staying somewhere for such long periods of time where she knows she’s not wanted. And what about this desi mentality that MILs never stay for long periods at their own daughters homes because they don’t want to upset the husband. why doesn’t the same courtsey and consideration extend to your DILs??
Your MIL seems like she has no dignity whatsoever. it seems like you and ur mother in law dont get along at all. in this scenario, its really pathetic of her to come stay at your house for months when she knws that she is unwanted. just ignore her totally when she comes and she should get the hint and leave soon.