I Regret....

[sweetdoll]

@Chicken_Biryani

Sweetdoll,

If this is a genuine issue and not a made up story , then this is my honest advise:

Divorce is nothing to be proud of unless you have an absolutely solid reason to justify it. Very few people actually accept their own mistake in leading to a divorce. You are brave enough to have accepted that you shouldnt have opted for divorce in the first place.

now, be brave yet again and do what needs to be done : communicate. Communicate with him. Involve no third or forth person. Just drop him an email , writing in detail how you feel , apologize. Another way of doing it is , request him for a meeting. meet up and speak to him. heart to heart.

you know, the worst thing to do right now is , wait for him to contact you. lets face it he wont. But if you are honest in this reconciliation , then put in your sincere efforts . Leave the rest to Allah. His anger is very valid. Just make sure you speak to him, he will reject you a few times , keep trying to talk to him a few times , dont give up. let him know that you are regretting your actions. I hope inshallah he will come around to accepting you once again.

As far as culture is concerned , you and him have to be happy. Dont bother about the people taunting you etc … once you guys are back together inshallah things will work out.

thanks alot CB..u know u made me feel so good:)..and u r rite…but the worse thing that can happen, and that i fear is that he will tell his family,and he is a son to my relatives…won’t it make the situation awkward??family wud think am being stupid again…and what if he rejects me and refuses to answer my mail or asks me not to contact again??i wud be so much embarrased in the family and my parents too…many times i thot to contact him,but if h were not from my family,things wud have been a bit easier for me as far as communicating again is concerned:teary1: