Re: I Regret....
Sweetdoll,
If this is a genuine issue and not a made up story , then this is my honest advise:
Divorce is nothing to be proud of unless you have an absolutely solid reason to justify it. Very few people actually accept their own mistake in leading to a divorce. You are brave enough to have accepted that you shouldnt have opted for divorce in the first place.
now, be brave yet again and do what needs to be done : communicate. Communicate with him. Involve no third or forth person. Just drop him an email , writing in detail how you feel , apologize. Another way of doing it is , request him for a meeting. meet up and speak to him. heart to heart.
you know, the worst thing to do right now is , wait for him to contact you. lets face it he wont. But if you are honest in this reconciliation , then put in your sincere efforts . Leave the rest to Allah. His anger is very valid. Just make sure you speak to him, he will reject you a few times , keep trying to talk to him a few times , dont give up. let him know that you are regretting your actions. I hope inshallah he will come around to accepting you once again.
As far as culture is concerned , you and him have to be happy. Dont bother about the people taunting you etc ... once you guys are back together inshallah things will work out.