are u really sure u want to go back to him? i have no idea why u separated/divorced him in the first place but something bad must have happened if u wanted to divorce him before rukhsati even happened. r those previous issues resolved?
its going to be very difficult for u to get back with him since he’s from ur family and u have already seperated from him. in situations like this when the marriage is within the family a separation has a knock on effect on the whole extended family and ppl take sides. have u spoken to ur parents about this? r they willing to support u? honestly i think if u go back to him u will not have that level of respect from ur in laws that u could have had before. if u do want to go back to him then i suggest u approach ur parents and ask them for their help in mending things but just make sure that ur previous issues are sorted out otherwise u might be back here 6 months later doing this 