Re: I need to VENT!
So i've also been reading up on everything that's been happening to you, and I have one question:
Why haven't you cancelled your passport yet? or "lost" it?
Or even better, why haven't you just put your foot down, and said "no, i'm not going to pakistan, and there's nothing you can do about it."
They can't physically force you to do anything, especially in the UK. In Pakistan however, you can easily be coerced into just about anything.
As horrible as this sounds, your parents obviously DO NOT know what's best for you, so if you're trying to be the good daughter, and abide by the Pakistani culture, realize that it is only YOU who will be hurt in the end. My mother had a forced marriage like this, it resulted in her being ditched in a country that she knew nothing about, strapped with two toddlers. I'm not saying that the same will happen to you, but if you do go to Pakistan, and by some chance you are some how forced into marriage, the consequences will be catastrophic. Be wise, and put your foot down now, or your life could seriously be damaged.