I need help urgently

[Nisha25]

Re: I need help urgently

@Sehrysh

I’ve heard of other cases where the wife discovered her husband was gay later and the end was as you’d suspect - a divorce. If you know now before the nikkah, then walk, in fact run as far and fast, away from this relationship. You have every right to confront him and present to him the information you discovered and despite your methods for coming upon the information, in this rare case, do not let him make you feel guilty or defensive about how you discovered the information.

how did the girl find out that he was gay? it’s unfortunate that she found out after the nikaah but i’m sure he didn’t just say it out to her. which desi man would be that upfront about his homosexuality

@Sehrysh

**The only thing that puzzles me is, for a man who’s as smart/qualified as you’ve alluded your fiance he, I’d think him giving you access to his PC was his way of “letting you find out” about him. No one would have that kind of personal information accessible on their PC and then allow another to look at it - that’s social or relationship suicide - which may be what he wanted as the outcome.
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Good luck!

great observation, i think that’s what everybody was wondering too. why would he need her to install software on there, he could do it himself unless he used it as a way of telling her or revealing to her that he was gay b/c he didn’t have the guts to tell her up front.