I need help urgently

[redvelvet]

Re: I need help urgently

@Sehrysh

I’ve heard of other cases where the wife discovered her husband was gay later and the end was as you’d suspect - a divorce. If you know now before the nikkah, then walk, in fact run as far and fast, away from this relationship. You have every right to confront him and present to him the information you discovered and despite your methods for coming upon the information, in this rare case, do not let him make you feel guilty or defensive about how you discovered the information.

The only thing that puzzles me is, for a man who’s as smart/qualified as you’ve alluded your fiance he, I’d think him giving you access to his PC was his way of **“letting you find out” **about him. No one would have that kind of personal information accessible on their PC and then allow another to look at it - that’s social or relationship suicide - which may be what he wanted as the outcome.

Good luck!

Exactly…I also can’t believe how careless he was. It does almost feel like he wanted her to find out.