Re: I need help, advice.
Our entire married life, my husband has been against living in Pakistan. AH, we have had a wonderful and fulfilling relationship. I have watched his parents slowly poison him against me, telling him how he has not raised his sons to take the family name, izzat etc.
When my inlaws visit Pakistan, people jeer at them, especially their own siblings mock them, and make snide remarks how their daughter in law is not from the family, caste, zaat, clan..whatever it is. People there tell them, the grandsons are the grandsons of the ‘khandaan’.
I put my foot down many times over the years over many issues, and that included my inlaws wish for my daughters to live in Pakistan, for them to marry older wealthy men.
And you are asking me why i am against it?