i disagree with you about it that marriage is religious act ? how no it is nothing to do with religion
marriage is declaration of commitment to each other in front of mullah or judge or official
for us everything is religious
for me it is :) (cant say anything about u especially after reading to ur contradicts )
meri zaat k zeray zeray per us ka naam likha hai.
but since i m not u so i wont gonna be judgmental and declare ur philosophy as a wrong one, why? cuz
ALLAH SWT khud fermatay hain "may tumharay saath aisa he hoon jaisa tum meray baray main goman rekhtay hain "
peace