I miss him so much

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:frowning:

:crying:

when do the feelings go away :frowning:

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Re: I miss him so much

miss what ?

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I thought it was easy for you girls to just let go of something good.

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but they regret after.

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… When the reality sets in! :p:

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awww :hugz:

call him.

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I just did :crying:

But we can’t see each other coz we can’t get married (diff religions). Luckily he’s the smart one and is more practical about things.

I thought I was over it, but after 2 months saw him at the office and it was soooooo hard for us both :frowning:

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Working at a same place and getting over will be too difficult. :hinna:
Try to engage yourself though realistically it will be tough on you both But hopefully it can be achieved.

cheer up :cheegum:

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You won't get over it till you meet someone else

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so marriage is the only solution? :confused:

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Luckily he's now in a different office and seperate building so we didn't see each other for 2 months. And we've decided that even simply looking at each other is baaad ... coz it brings back old feelings.

Thanks for the words of encouragement Lois.

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We’re both of marriagable age, so why go out with someone when you know you can’t end up together? My parents would freak and so would his. Actually his already did when they found out.

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unless one of you emotionally engage her/him self to some one else.

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^ that would be like substitution, which won't last long. Its better to strongly face the separation now and wait for the right guy/girl to come in their lives again. Looking to get involve with someone at a time like this will not do justice to any party.

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wat other solution is there ???:aq:

I think u made the right decision…yeah it does take time and moving on isn’t easy…

hang in there :hugz:

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but marriage is a religious occasion where two souls are united on the name of ALLAH SWT, and there are some requirements such as a muslim can only marry a muslim.

so does it make any difference in this unconditional relationship that whether u are married to him or not?

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Thanks. I feel better after crying. I actually tried to meet other muslim guys, which turned out to be disastrous, so for now I am just going to be alone.

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yeah catwoman all the good ones r either taken or in hiding…:hinna:

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aww :hugz:
Hope it works out for you easily :flower1:

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i can find one for u :biggthumb: