talkin to my aunt.. about shadi and I told her.. i will marry a guy who lives in pakistan.. i hate these ABCD guys.. OR wat eva.. coz i dont trust them..if they are virginz… u no what can u not do here… and everythin i here… she looked at me.. strangly.. and told me that 45% of the pakistani guyz who live there are non virginz.. i m pretty shocked.. is it true.. wat the heck.. ??? I mean.. isnt More den half of the population is Muslim.. how can u commit sucha crime!
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talkin to my aunt.. about shadi and I told her.. i will marry a guy who lives in pakistan.. i hate these ABCD guys.. OR wat eva.. coz i dont trust them..if they are virginz.... u no what can u not do here... and everythin i here... she looked at me.. strangly.. and told me that 45% of the pakistani guyz who live there are non virginz.. i m pretty shocked.. is it true.. wat the heck.. ????? I mean.. isnt More den half of the population is Muslim.. how can u commit sucha crime!
and other reason to hate Pakistan.. AHH..
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Wrong....majority of them(almost 95%,if unmarried) are still virgins...even in their 30's.....living with their mom & dads...
There there Miss.Shocked and Hairan, it's going to be okay. Half the gupshup male population are virgins...like Lajawab, CM, Mad Scientist, JonyBr etc. so you see it's really not all that bad.
Well, as a gori growing up in america, there were many young people who engaged in premarital sex or just making out and not quite going for it "all" But on the other hand, my husband grew up in pak and saw just as much of this type of thing going on. It is not as "forbidden" in america as it is over there, it is discussed more openly and that's possibly why you arent as aware of its existence. On both sides of the planet, some people are engaging in this activity and some are not. Its a very personal thing and seems not to be affected by religion or culture (at least not to any great degree).
Maybe try not to judge a man because he engaged in premarital sex. It may be better in the long run to marry an experienced man rather than one who has none and may wonder for the rest of his life what it would be like to try things out with another! I dont mean to offend with this statement but I've seen both cultures and truly beleive that when it comes to sex, all men are pretty much alike whether secretly or openly, whether muslim or otherwise.
Your last sentence says that you already hate pakistan so why marrying a guy from there ? And suppose if the guy have the same perception about you then what. As much you are entitled to your view, the other person may have strong reservations about you. So beware.
You also hate ABCD guys. You should marry a guy from Nepal. Problem solved.
Wrong....majority of them(almost 95%,if unmarried) are still virgins...even in their 30's.....living with their mom & dads...
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No.. its a fact...and let me tell u.. living with mom and dad doesnt mean kidz cant do STUFF..
Diva- i guess.. i m living in old pakistan still... but this is sick..
Cat- women.. I hope.. the one i get is atleast a virgin.. hhaahha
Mamaof3: i guess.. i m not sayin all.. but seriously.. anythin can happen here.. coz of so much FREEDOM.. and its not wrong.. or wat eva.. i dont wanna judge any1..
R-C: I hated pakistan.. not my relatives.. and HOT guys who live dere..i mean dere are other reasons too... and...seriously!...if some1 questionz me .. i can answer dem.. and i dont care if they question me of livin in AMERICA.. or wat do they think... i guess Allah is the only one knows about everythin... i m not questionin that..... i m just sayin.. that is pretty shockin and how sick is that..
i dont care wat any1 does.. it just.. we were suppose to act bit muslim...as we all stand and shout..... that we are muslim...and American is wat eva..
not all ABCD guyz.. yea..wat the heck.. where did u get this nepal from...
I find it hard to believe that 45% of guys in Pak get it on before marriage. If that is the case then you have to say the same for girls right. As someone said earlier most are virgins till they get married at like 30 years old or 21 if you're a girl. :)
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hate these ABCD guys.. OR wat eva.. coz i dont trust them..if they are virginz.... u no what can u not do here... and everythin i here...
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Well if a guy is sincere with you does it matter about his past? Isn't that a little narrow minded? And i'm assuming you are living in America where you can 'do whatever you want' and you are still a virgin, so why can't the guys be.
Personally I couldn't marry from pakistan,being born & brought up in the west I can relate more to the 'BBCD's' if u like! The sweet ones r cool, chilled out, have good dress sense and wacky sense of humour and I like their laid back attichoooooooooood! Also the religious ones focus much more on the Deen than culture crap...Not dissin guys from pak in anyway watsoever, just I can relate to the guys here way more..
lastly juz coz you think guys in pak are virgins it not a good reason to marry some1...wha if he was a virgin but abused lil boys hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
skhan-me too.. but she said..where she work.. they took this survey.. and when asked ppl... and they seen cases...(yup dere have been cases). my aunt..she said they saw this whole video.. on pakistani life.. or somethin.. and they showed how young menz are committin dis crime! and they say it freely that it was for fun!! yo.. it is shockin!
JonyBr: it is a survey.. she works in this american health department.. or somethin.. and thats where she found out! and she is not my khala! mumani here!
InnOcent EyeZ: are u kiddin me. it seem narrow minded.. but i dont wanna share my man with any1.. sorry!
M: i dont know.. i dont wanna randomly call her and ask her stuff... but she is comin over on monday.. i will ask her den.. hahahha..
& how did this survey took place ? sitting on computer talking to some bunch of teenagers on chat who were trying to be machoos & saying ohh yes thats what we do ever other night while in reality they dont even have an idea what it is ?
PS: BTW if for a sec let me beleive its true, they cant do it without girl can they ? so that means the equal number of ladies r doing it as well … shocked now ?
And suppose if the guy have the same perception about you then what. As much you are entitled to your view, the other person may have strong reservations about you. So beware.
