Re: i m extremly sad and dejected
i asked my bhabhi if she wana breake this relation then i can help her i m a girl aswell .i can understand my bhabhi feelings but she said no to me because she loves him just annoyed with his harkatein.why he adopted this culture this much we both have no idea.may there is no one to stop him and tell him this is not right.or may b his freinds has this knd a life style so he adopted this i jsut dont know
i talked to her and she told me he didnt tell her all at once.when normally ppl talk diferent thing so batao baton main yhe batain bhi hogayii.
she told me he said he is not a pakka sharabi but he drinks occasinaly with freinds.he eats mc donald and other brands he likes japenise mmexican cusines which are usually amde jhatka meat so there fore its haram .
about girl she said i aked him about her and he told her that i like u thats why i marry u and didnt marry to that british girl.
i dont think he tells her to get rid of her.may b he told this to her.he was telling his life style to my bhabhi telling these things so she can be used to them by the time she comes there that he has this kind a life style and she wil have to go iwth him in parties whr ppl drink dance etc....
i posted this thread to get advices how we can bring him back to the track and make him understand that what ever he is doing is wrong.and some things can b continued but in limits...
she just want him to b back to the track as amuslim and as bleongs to a good family.
i know he is a nice guy just got spolied in these years..i knwo he can get better if soem one force him..talk to him.he offers pray.he is not that bad i guess i m not syaing all this because he is my brother....