Re: i m extremly sad and dejected
Seems to be a MAJOR lack of communication between everyone. Talk to your brother, and your parents. Call a family meeting. Who knows, maybe your brother is doing all those things, or maybe he is saying he does so he can opt out of this upcoming marriage? Anyhow as a sister, call your brother up, talk to him, and see if you can help. And see if you all can get to the bottom of it. G'luck !