Re: i m extremly sad and dejected
if you know this and u still think that ur wud-be bhabi and ur brother have a chance together - ARE U OUT OF UR MIND??
and u tell me ur on a mission to change him?
ur sister-in-law is sad and probably so frustrated at this time she cant think straight but I would assume that maybe you would.
your brother drinks, has other women in his life and god knws what else.. and your still willing to destroy this young girls life over the whole "i love him" ka chakkar.
Aise larke nahi badalte.. time might help them lekin if ur waiting for a miracle to happen then really pray to Allah. and i know this might be hard to hear about ur brother but its true. Think of it this way. Wouldnt you help your friend if you knew that her to-be husband was doing drugs/partying/drinking? wouldnt you tell her and hope to help her out? then why not in this case? just because he's your brother?
please please please dont ruin her life. You dont knw what Allah might be protecting her from!