i LL Prefer Boys To Answer it!!!

[Gabrujawaan]

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What's this bs about trust???!! What's trust got to do with leaving your parents to marry someone you love? It's not the same as one person leaving for another in a relationship.

I don't think it's an easy choice to make. You just don't wake up one day and decide to elope. This is usually done as a last resort.

[sanafarhan]

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@Impulse

welcome to GS, you should post here more often:)

I like your views

Thanks very much, Impluse :halo:

[SheeN]

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@amana

It’s not always such a clear cut case of the girl leaving the parents for the boy. For example, there was a case of a girl who was studying to be an alima meeting a nice, religious boy, nothing haraam in the relationship, and the immediate intention was marriage. They did everything in accordance with Islam, but her parents wanted her to marry a relative from “back home” because it was her “duty” to provide him with a visa. He was not religious at all, so she went to an imam who approached her parents - they still told her that they would cut her off and that she was no longer their daughter, and complained about their failiing health and how this shock would kill them. It was the relative or the highway.

To make a long story short, she married the guy, prayed for her parents constantly, her parents eventually came around (when the grandchildren were born), and they are one of the happiest couples I know.

some one is getting to the point here:)

[SheeN]

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@Shadan

If a girl can leave her parents, she can leave anyone. NOT TRUSTWORTHY!

well i strongly dont agree with this…i know a couple who did love marriage and now they are leading a happy life why a girl is not trustworthy ..haan???she has left her family due to a guy cause sge love him and lead a happy life with him isnt this her right???isnt islam says APNI MARZI SAI U CAN MARRY???in return the guy should be sincere as she is leaving her family due to him

ager mardoon ka yahi opinion hota nah tou there wont be the stories of SASSI PANNU,HEER RANJA…

[SheeN]

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@faizy

true.. u believe that general people here will know about behshati zewar?

err.. YEAH!

death? i agree. . it will find u 99% in the LEAST convenient time.. love, i wouldnt know.. movies never do justice and life isnt a set of some bollywood song. . .

faizy bahi saab when u ll fall in love kabhi nah kabhi..then comment on it:barbie:

[hussain87]

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@SheeN

well i strongly dont agree with this.....i know a couple who did love marriage and now they are leading a happy life :) why a girl is not trustworthy ..haan????she has left her family due to a guy cause sge love him and lead a happy life with him isnt this her right???isnt islam says APNI MARZI SAI U CAN MARRY???in return the guy should be sincere as she is leaving her family due to him :)

ager mardoon ka yahi opinion hota nah tou there wont be the stories of SASSI PANNU,HEER RANJA....

we can marry whoever we want but most ppl mix their cultural tradition with islam.:) ...........

[faizy]

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@SheeN

faizy bahi saab when u ll fall in love kabhi nah kabhi..then comment on it

i AM commenting on that..