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now that was soo funny:omg:
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Go to Sabz Sitara Clinics or Pharmacies and ask for Saathi 
err I mean they are called saathi - or used to be called last I heard…
PS: ( I can’t believe I am posting in this thread)
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oh you’re not the only one, I can’t believe either that you posted in this thread.
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Is this thread still going strong?
Hey, you gals are "azaad" if you want to want to take a couple of years off and then have kids. Just like goris.. :p
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why can’t I 
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and i just came to see what AQ had to say in THIS thread
:aq:
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aren't contraceptives considered haraam by maulvis?
Interesting how an American raised girl (assuming) would want a traditional Pakistani mian bhai.
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and what did AQ say 
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generalized comment.
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aren't contraceptives considered haraam by maulvis?
Not all.
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Be safety conscious. 80% of people are caused by accidents. 
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There is something called a contraceptive injection - you don't have to take your pill on the wedding day or talk to your husband about condoms - it prevents you from getting pregnant for around 8-12 weeks. Once you are comfortable with your husband, you can start discussing other types of contraception. Consult your doctor about it.
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Because you’re religious, decent and unmarried.
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Because you're religious, decent and unmarried.
but similar things (not the current issue) are discussed and taught in Quran too... which means? :)
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aren't contraceptives considered haraam by maulvis?
Interesting how an American raised girl (assuming) would want a traditional Pakistani mian bhai.
almost sounds like she had no choice in that decision. But don't let me start any conspiracy theories here.
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its the depo-provera shot and it is NOTORIOUS for causing weight gain. i put on 20lbs and it was NOT pleasant! i would really not recommend it just before she gets married.
as for contraceptives being haram, from what i’ve read, its haram once you’ve conceived because then you’re interfering with a life that already exists.
prior to that, you can go ahead and protect yourself any way you want to in order to not get pregnant. on a sidenote- maulvi’s should really enlighten themselves more and take into consideration the problem of over-population and parents being unable to provide for their many children before they start preaching. 
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Yeh kia bola 
Tumhain kia wo masjid ke bahar topyaan bechney wala Pai lagta hai
religious hai tu kia uska dil nahi karta shaadi karney ko, our biwi ke nakhrey uthaney ko 
decent hai tu kia iska matlab hia wo suhaag raat baaqi kam bhool kar apni bewi se farmaish karey ke 'Kabhi kabhi " gaa kar sunaain 
unmarried hia tu howa logon ko tu married hotey our bachoon ki line lagatey nahi dekha usney
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Yes I too have heard about huge amounts of weight gain from the injections. Plus it almost stops menstrual flow…does not sound good at all.
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yeah but i've seen with my friend that sometimes, it doesn't... sometimes, aunt flo decides to move in permanently. for months at a time. its horrid!
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but similar things (not the current issue) are discussed and taught in Quran too... which means? :)
Yes in a very modest way.
The thread opener is clever enough to use internet but so naive to do some research before asking the question. Look what I found just by typing "condoms in Pakistan" in google search.
Male members of Pakistan’s National Assembly and Senate received a unique gift from the Ministry of Population Welfare ahead of Eid-ul-Fitr - a packet of 100 condoms.
The move, however, earned the ire of some opposition parliamentarians, who have taken it as an insult and plan to take it up with National Assembly Speaker Chaudhry Amir Hussian.
The distribution of the condoms was part of a “bid to encourage population control at the top level”, according to news reports.
“Yes, the condom packs have been distributed among the male parliamentarians. Each MP has been gifted a pack of condoms containing 100 condoms,” an unnamed official of the ministry of population welfare was quoted as saying.
A lawmaker, who did not want to be named, said he would take up the matter with the Speaker and file a privilege motion if need be.
Source: Press Trust of India reported in Push Journal